How do you know if you should leave your long term relationship? This post is going to be 2 parts, but very simple. On occasion I am asked the question, “How do I know if I should leave?” When you read other posts on this subject, you’ll find lot’s of different opinions about what you […]

Separation

How To Know When You Should Leave A Long-Term Relationship

What do you think of when you hear the word cheat, or affair? Do you think of an adulterer who committed a horrible crime? Or someone who only considers themselves, and has no concern about who they are hurting? Possibly both? Click here to watch my video: 4 Reasons Why People In Happy Relationships Cheat […]

Affairs

4 Reasons Why People In Happy Relationships Cheat

Today I am going to tell you about one thing. This one thing is so huge, that if you do it once a week, every week, your relationship will be amazing. Don’t you want the best relationship? I know it sounds simple, but aren’t the simplest things usually the hardest? It’s not go on a […]

Open Relationships

One Thing You Should Be Doing Every Week For a Better Relationship

Do you remember the meme that has two pictures, each one with a romantic couple in it? The first image is of the couple kissing in bed. They’re hot and heavy, arms all over each other. Underneath them reads a caption, “Expectations.” The second image has that same couple. Only one person is on the […]

Separation

Relationships Problems: What To Do When Your Expectations Don’t Match Your Reality

Halloween is definitely one of the greatest holidays in my book. You get to dress up and pretend that you’re something you’re not AND you have the best excuse to binge on your favorite candy! Every year when October roles around, I always look forward to this holiday. But, I also understand that I’m not […]

Open Relationships

HOW TO INTRODUCE FANTASY AND ROLE-PLAY INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Dr. John Gottman, the founder of The Gottman Institute in Seattle, has proven that there are four communication styles which are extremely destructive to relationships. These patterns of interaction are Criticism, Defensiveness, Stonewalling, and Contempt. If these styles persist in partnerships, it could mean divorce or separation. Knowing what they are and being able to […]

Communication

FOUR COMMUNICATION STYLES THAT LEAD TO DIVORCE ACCORDING TO JOHN GOTTMAN

I have this memory of when I was a young girl. I had slept over a friends house and was waiting for my mom to pick me up. While I was waiting, my friend showed me this book that her mom had. It had lots of illustrations of female genitalia. I remember thinking about both, […]

Single

GETTING COMFORTABLE WITH YOUR FEMALE GENITALIA: 4 THINGS YOU CAN DO

Want To Add Something New To Your Sexual Repertoire? Here Are A Few Things You Might Want To Try! Kissing without tongue Kissing with tongue Face Massage Back Massage Genital Massage Role – Play Watching Porn Watching Porn with your partner Adding other partners (Two-some/three-some) Group Sex Sex Parties Holding Hands Taking a Shower or […]

Single

57 SEX IDEAS YOU MIGHT NOT HAVE THOUGHT OF

Have you ever lived with a partner? It’s a lot easier to spot troublesome thoughts and behavior when you have to face the same person every day. Not only does time spent with that person usually increase, but now you have combined chores and duties which are accompanied by individual expectations about how these should […]

Open Relationships

WHAT IS KEEPING SCORE AND HOW IT CAN HURT YOUR RELATIONSHIP?