“If I was truly happy with myself, then I wouldn’t feel like I need other people,” is something I hear all the time. As a society, we’ve been taught that the thermometer for happiness lies partly with being able to be without other people during moments of distress. Taking care of ourselves comes in the […]

Communication

Support Systems and Why You Need Them

Today I am going to tell you about one thing. This one thing is so huge, that if you do it once a week, every week, your relationship will be amazing. Don’t you want the best relationship? I know it sounds simple, but aren’t the simplest things usually the hardest? It’s not go on a […]

Open Relationships

One Thing You Should Be Doing Every Week For a Better Relationship

Halloween is definitely one of the greatest holidays in my book. You get to dress up and pretend that you’re something you’re not AND you have the best excuse to binge on your favorite candy! Every year when October roles around, I always look forward to this holiday. But, I also understand that I’m not […]

Open Relationships

HOW TO INTRODUCE FANTASY AND ROLE-PLAY INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Dr. John Gottman, the founder of The Gottman Institute in Seattle, has proven that there are four communication styles which are extremely destructive to relationships. These patterns of interaction are Criticism, Defensiveness, Stonewalling, and Contempt. If these styles persist in partnerships, it could mean divorce or separation. Knowing what they are and being able to […]

Communication

FOUR COMMUNICATION STYLES THAT LEAD TO DIVORCE ACCORDING TO JOHN GOTTMAN

I get a lot of questions about Polamory. The big ones are, what is it and how do I know if it’s for me? For those of you who are interested in basic information about what being polyamorous means, look no further.   What Polyamory Isn’t Being Polyamorous isn’t about having a secret affair. Nor is it about getting […]

Open Relationships

MAKING A DECISION TO BE IN A POLYAMOROUS RELATIONSHIP? HERE’S WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW FIRST

I have this memory of when I was a young girl. I had slept over a friends house and was waiting for my mom to pick me up. While I was waiting, my friend showed me this book that her mom had. It had lots of illustrations of female genitalia. I remember thinking about both, […]

Single

GETTING COMFORTABLE WITH YOUR FEMALE GENITALIA: 4 THINGS YOU CAN DO

Want To Add Something New To Your Sexual Repertoire? Here Are A Few Things You Might Want To Try! Kissing without tongue Kissing with tongue Face Massage Back Massage Genital Massage Role – Play Watching Porn Watching Porn with your partner Adding other partners (Two-some/three-some) Group Sex Sex Parties Holding Hands Taking a Shower or […]

Single

57 SEX IDEAS YOU MIGHT NOT HAVE THOUGHT OF

Have you ever lived with a partner? It’s a lot easier to spot troublesome thoughts and behavior when you have to face the same person every day. Not only does time spent with that person usually increase, but now you have combined chores and duties which are accompanied by individual expectations about how these should […]

Open Relationships

WHAT IS KEEPING SCORE AND HOW IT CAN HURT YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

If you are single, in a monogamous relationship, polyamourous, open, or seeking an affair, most likely there is a website available for your dating needs. Online dating bridges the gap so that users can experience instant gratification while almost guaranteeing that they will be able to talk to someone who fits their needs. Today a […]

Single

ADVANTAGES AND DISADVANTAGES OF ONLINE DATING SITES AND APPS