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Tools & Resources
Read it if you want guidance on how anyone can utilize his or her own peak encounters and fantasies as powerful tools of self-discovery
by Jack Morin, PhD
The Erotic Mind
Read it if you want to know how your brain works
by Lisa Feldman Barrett
7 and a half lessons about the Brain
Read it if you want a "fresh look at infidelity."
by Esther Perel
The State Of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity
"The new science of adult attachment."
Read it if you want to learn about your attachment style, and how to find and keep love.
by Levine, Amir; Heller, Rachel
Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment
"A masterclass in the science of sex."
Read this if you struggle with low sexual desire or if you suffer from a desire discrepancy in your relationship.
by Emily Nagoski, Phd
Come As You Are
read these if you're struggling with your sex life or relationship
Jennifer's Recs
This book is highly influential in how I ground my relationship with clients. It shows ways to work collaboratively with clients as a conduit, rather than as a authority figure. It emphasizes affirming and working through the strength in a client's identity, while arefully considering the oppression they face and how seeking justice can be a pathway to healing.
by Lillian Comas-Diaz, PhD and Edil Torres Rivera, PhD
Liberation Psychology: Theory, Method, Practice, and Social Justice
Understanding trauma is often fundamental to the therapy work I do, and this book provides a thorough understanding of what trauma is and how it impacts us.
by Bessel van der Kolk, MD
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
This book helps the reader listens to the wisdom of our natural world, and reexamine our relationship to nature, each other, and our existence.
by Robin Wall Kimmerer
Braiding Sweetgrass
An excellent read to understand the harm of fatphobia, and relearn how to see, discuss, and love our bodies.
by Aubrey Gordon
What We Don't Talk About When We Talk About Fat
This book beautifully takes apart the marginalizing concept of the "abnormal" mind and refocuses the reader on honoring and recognizing how different minds can work.
by Jenara Nerenberg
Divergent Mind: Thriving in a World That Wasn't Designed for You
Check out Brandon's recommendations for insight on the interconnectivity of our body, mind, and culture
Brandon's Recs
Read it if you want to learn about asexuality and how it fits into our lives and culture.
by Angela Chen
Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex
Read it if you strive for a life with pleasure beyond oppression.
by adrienne maree brown
Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good
Read it if you want a tool to help you learn to navigate communicating desire in your sex life.
by Princess Kali
The Yes, No, Maybe Workbook: Get What You Want Out of Sex & Kink
Read this if you want to understand the unbelievable ways trauma can impact us and the power of connection that it takes to heal.
by Bruce D. Perry and Maia Szalavitz
The Boy Who Was Raised As a Dog
Read this if you want to explore a revolutionary look at love and a critique of a society that denies it to us.
by bell hooks
All About Love
Check out Del's recommendations for books that show the healing power of love.
Del's Recs
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