In the modern world, where emotional distress can stem from various sources, relationship conflicts often take center stage. We know that there is a direct link between relationship stress and issues like anxiety, depression, and addiction. As a result, couples counseling has emerged as a crucial resource for addressing these challenges and nurturing healthier relationships. […]

When I admittedly search through Google’s SEO to see where we stand I notice the common searches for marriage counseling versus couples therapy. Two different words will give you different results. But does the language matter? Simply put, yes and no. Let’s dive into it. Couples Therapy: What Is It? Couples therapy is for improving […]

Understanding Core Erotic Themes: Building Stronger Relationships Through Communication What Are Core Erotic Themes? Core erotic themes (COT) are deeply ingrained triggers of sexual arousal that play a significant role in shaping our sexual identities and desires. These themes can encompass a wide range of factors, including specific objects, scenarios, emotions, or power dynamics that […]

As a therapist, you’re dedicated to helping others navigate their emotional journeys and improve their well-being. However, it’s crucial to remember that therapists also need support and guidance to maintain their own mental and emotional health. At Be Well Therapy Group, one of our specialties includes therapy for therapists! We utilize a range of effective […]

Understanding ADHD in the Context of Relationships Living with ADHD can present unique challenges, especially when it comes to relationships. At Be Well Therapy Group we have witnessed firsthand the impact it can have on individuals and their loved ones. In this article, we will explore the complexities of ADHD and how it can affect […]

Sexual scripts and sexual blueprints are terms often used interchangeably, but they actually refer to distinct aspects of our sexual identity. Let’s break down the difference between the two and how they shape our sexual experiences. Sexual Scripts Sexual scripts are like the unwritten rules that guide our sexual behavior. They’re influenced by societal norms, cultural […]

Do you want to fix your relationships, improve your emotional connections, and find long-term happiness? Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) might be the solution you’ve been searching for. In this article, we’ll explore who EFT is for, why you should consider trying it, and how a therapist at Be Well Therapy Group might implement it during […]

If Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) sounds familiar to you, but you aren’t exactly sure how it works, then you’ve come to the right place. EFT is a highly effective and evidence-based approach to couples and individual therapy that focuses on understanding and healing emotional bonds. Developed by Dr. Sue Johnson in the 1980s, EFT has […]

When it comes to dating and marriage, we often hear about the butterflies and the fireworks, but rarely do we hear about the ick in a long term relationship. But what about the moments when something feels off? Something inexplicable that sends shivers down your spine and makes you question everything? Ah yes, I’m talking […]

Is relational happiness reality minus expectations? Have you ever watched that seen from the the movie, 500 Days Of Summer, where Joseph Gordon Levitt, can’t wait to meet his ex, Zoey Deschanel at a party she’s hosting? He thinks that the meeting will go one way; they will immediately reconnect and realize that they are […]

As a clinical social worker and therapist, I spend a lot of time speaking with individuals and couples teaching them how to feel their feelings. They are a critical piece of how we make positive change and move through life’s challenges. Emotions also offer us critical information about our needs, boundaries, relationships, and the world […]

By: Brynne Kessler, MFT John Gottman’s research reflects: couples who stay together the longest are those who allow each other to be influenced by another. In other words, it is important to remain open to your partner’s perspective. As a couple’s therapist, I often witness couples get stuck in the communication challenge of needing to be […]