If you prefer watching instead of reading, click here! I’m sure you’ve heard this story before. You and your partner are trying to make a decision. For example, let’s say you’re planning a vacation. You want to go to a nice relaxing beach resort and they want to go hiking in the Rocky Mountains. Because […]

Communication

The Art Of Compromise

Learn more about some of the fascinating powers of your brain! 12/5/18 By: Jennifer Seip, LMFT, MA Have you ever heard someone refer to humans as left brain dominant? Do you even know what that means? Well today I’m going to tell you exactly what that means and how to get more out of your […]

Trauma

How Insight About The Left and Right Brain Can Lead You To Euphoria

Learn why mind reading can both help and harm your relationship Mindreading: The Good and Bad 12/28/18 By: Jennifer Seip, LMFT   Let’s say a couple walks into my office. We’ll call them John and Judy. Right away John and Judy begin talking about a small disagreement they had last week. According to Judy, when […]

Communication

Mind Reading: The Good and Bad

Do this once a week for a better relationship 12/7/2018 By: Jennifer Seip, LMFT, MA Dear friends, Today I am going to tell you about one thing. This one thing is so huge, that if you do it once a week, every week, your relationship will be greatly improved. I know it sounds simple, but aren’t […]

Communication

Learn About The Check-In: One Thing You Should Be Doing Every Week For a Better Relationship

What do you do when you have toxic people in your life? How to deal with toxic people 11/1/18 By: Jennifer Seip, LMFT Who are toxic people? I know what you’re thinking, this post was made for you! We all have that one person, (or two or three) in our lives who we consider to […]

Communication

How To Deal With Toxic People!

What you should know before you move in with your partner 10/24/18 By: Jennifer Seip, LMFT, MA   Hey everyone! I’m really excited to share with you that I am going to start doing video’s (yay!) It’s really important to me that you have a place to go and learn correct information about all things […]

Communication

4 Questions You Should Be Asking Before Moving In

Relationships Problems What To Do When Your Expectations Don’t Match Your Reality 10/3/18 By Jennifer Seip, LMFT Dear friends, Let’s imagine that you’re creating a meme. It has two pictures standing side by side. In addition, they both feature a couple. The image on the left shows the couple kissing in bed. They look like […]

Separation

What To Do When Your Relationship Expectations Don’t Match Your Reality

Learn why it is important to leave emotional space to connect 8/8/18 By: Jennifer Seip, LMFT When my husband and I first moved in together, like many couples, we had to workout a few kinks. We discussed the usual stuff like, who would do the dishes, make dinner and take out the trash. However, one […]

Communication

The Link Between Emotional Capacity And Connection

Halloween is definitely one of the greatest holidays in my book. You get to dress up and pretend that you’re something you’re not AND you have the best excuse to binge on your favorite candy! Every year when October roles around, I always look forward to this holiday. But, I also understand that I’m not […]

Sex

HOW TO INTRODUCE FANTASY AND ROLE-PLAY INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Dr. John Gottman, the founder of The Gottman Institute in Seattle, has proven that there are four communication styles which are extremely destructive to relationships. These patterns of interaction are Criticism, Defensiveness, Stonewalling, and Contempt. If these styles persist in partnerships, it could mean divorce or separation. Knowing what they are and being able to […]

Communication

FOUR COMMUNICATION STYLES THAT LEAD TO DIVORCE ACCORDING TO JOHN GOTTMAN

I get a lot of questions about Polamory. The big ones are, what is it and how do I know if it’s for me? For those of you who are interested in basic information about what being polyamorous means, look no further.   What Polyamory Isn’t Being Polyamorous isn’t about having a secret affair. Nor is it about getting […]

Open Relationships

MAKING A DECISION TO BE IN A POLYAMOROUS RELATIONSHIP? HERE’S WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW FIRST

Red Light, Green Light: A fun way to open up conversation about sex with your partner Do you need a couples game way to talk about sex with your partner(s)? This game will easily get you communicating about sexy things that you’ve been too afraid to talk about! 6/24/2017 By Jennifer Seip, LMFT   Do […]

Sex

Red light, Green Light: The couples game that will get you talking about sex